Similar situation two weeks running for me with LBWs. First week I edged onto my pad, even the keeper heard it, yet the bowler appealed and the trigger happy umpire raised his finger. The wicket keeper said to me, "you hit that first, ah well see ya" and laughed - I did retort with something I won't post on the board. Anyway, last week took a few strides forwards, hit me on the upper thigh, the umpire gave me out. Was fuming on both occasions, and this week gone the umpire came to me at the end of the match and apologised for the decision as he saw my reaction as I was walking off.
Bad umpiring decisions are a pain in the neck, but I guess you've got respect the fact they are there to do a job and bad decisions can happen at any level of the game. Even the top umpires make howlers from time to time. The worst time is when they change a game, where you can be running away with it, looking ready to chase down your target, and then you're given out and a collapse happens. But I'll be honest, despite having a few bad umpiring decisions this year given against me, I'd rather play with qualified umpires than not.
I think that is 100% correct...
At the moment I play 3rd XI cricket, and we umpire our own games. There are so many howlers, and blatant cheating from the oppos at times. The appointed umpires at 3rd team level cheat as well which isn't ideal.
At least at the 2nd team level you get better umpires, and I'd much rather play with them umpiring as less arguments happen (you have to respect that umpire's decision and can't dispute it as much...).
I've heard stories of absolute shockers in the MCCL 1s Divs 1-3 and know one umpire (at Wembley) who is a panel umpire and pretty poor. But bad decisions are part of the game, they always have been, at least with a panel umpire if he's consistently bad that's better than a biased cheat.
But indeed, bad umpiring ruins the game, and there aren't retractions of appeals due to the competitiveness. I got triggered by my fellow player when I inside edged the ball onto my pad above the knee roll, and the oppo all knew it but they didn't say anything.
One of those things. Without umpires, the game of cricket isn't what it is though...