My main experiences as a cricket players and ex-football manager have been lack of payment of week/annual subs. I wouldn't mind, but our club does a great deal - £30 per season + £5 per game and for that you receive a personalised baggy green, adidas shirt and trousers with embroided sponsors, hoody, personalised T shirt, shorts and this season 3 x net sessions with ex-pro cricketers. And still we're chasing players for their subs at the end of season bash!
I don't lend out my bats any more after I lent a skipper (at a different club) my bat some years ago. He got triggered and threw the bat once on the way back then clattered it against a metal railing. The same guy also borrowed a helmet and gave it back to me dripping with sweat (I don't have a problem with that) but also the grill was dripping with his phlegm, from where he'd been gobbing. I like my pads and gloves to mould to me so I don't like lending them out either and I've never had a problem with anyone taking anything without asking.
However, being a kit badger I've sold at stupid prices a couple of surplus helmets and gloves to current team mates who need new kit - I get arguably more than I'd get on ebay without the hassle and they get some decent relatively unused kit. Will probably do the same with some cast offs next season...