To quote Hemingway:
“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.”
I think a possible broader point here is about how/why the game is played. I will admit that though I am totally committed to my team winning and will put in 100% to help them win, I also play to be better than my personal last game.
A lot of times I have heard people say "its all about winning, at any cost - whatever it takes to win" etc.
I am personally in total objection to this point, though I don't think many Australians will share this opinion. I also do not think it is something that we should model for youngsters - I certainly am not teaching this to my children.
Playing with dignity, with a sense of ethics and morals is vital to me. It does not take away my commitment or ability to compete if I am not vicious or sledging on the field. My competition is vicious, and my effort and ability is totally there, but I will not demonstrate this outwardly, in a mean way. I will demonstrate it with skill (I wish) and effort (more usually).
Going down the road of intimidation and sledging and being rude or mean is debasing myself as a human as far as I am concerned. If you have convinced yourself that this is what competition is, and you are willing to be seen that way by others, so be it. I see this as lowly behaviour, not competitiveness. I may not voice that to you on the pitch, because I'm not there to voice my opinion on your behaviour, I'm there to:
1. play cricket
2. contribute to my team by doing the above
3. play with commitment, effort and dignity to do the above
4. be a decent human being and member of society
There is no reason, to me, one can't congratulate a phenomenal effort (e.g. scoring 290) and still be committed to one's own team - you are furthering the cause of the sport overall with decent behaviour, and keeping lowly behaviour (IMHO) out of the game.
My tuppence - sorry it was so long. And sorry if it comes across pompous - not my intention at all.
cheers
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