Well last post for me
Fair play if you can keep that level of control it's rare very rare
Personally I broke one of their jaws with a chair and an arm when they tried to swing at me
I stopped when they were both on the floor but if they had got up I would have put both down again for fear of them picking up another weapon
I got off with suspended and probation as was self defence but excessive force which I accept and was a learning experience but if people have weapons I make sure they are not going to use them again as if they are backing up really easy to grab another weapon
I was very lucky and do not take these things lightly and am not bragging in slightest as was an extremely scary time being in court facing 5 years in winson green , if not for witnesses and pub cctv I could have been sent down
To be fair since then I try to not drink too much and put myself in those situations as I know I won't back down so a work around in a way
But everything is easy to judge if you were not there
I could comment so much on this but....
@roco , your reply/thoughts are measured , balanced and very, very candid. Thats appreciated, respected and its a good trait to have . You admit you could have done some things a bit differently and that the court conclusions were fair enough. You also admit court was scary and that is admirable . You have reevaluated your behaviour/thoughts since , and that introspection helps to improve our capacity to think smart /quickly if ever in a similar situation.
Cudos to you bro !
Perhaps when you say my attitude /level of control is very rare , well maybe it is ....but ihave a feeling its about as common as any other pattern of response .
Lastly, i think maybe you are being too harsh on yourself and that perhaps , if you were in a similar situation today , you could do the bare minimum while still looking out for yourself and your mates .