Unless you're playing either a very high level of club cricket i.e Premier league for 1st XI or Regional stuff and above i.e North/South
of England, then you do not need more than 1 bat. This is what I found out, it just never works, as you find form with one bat and you don't want to leave it, meaning that the other bat becomes underused.
1 bat - performance based and that you like the weight of.
2 pads is just ridiculous, again only recommended if you play gaes in coloured kit, even then who cares?
2 pairs of gloves I can understand (even 3!) as my hands sweat prefusingly when I bat due to my set up, grip etc.
Thigh pad set (inner/outer).
1 helmet
1 Big duffle bag, I have found this is the best optio for almost any cricketer as my duffle (GN PP Duffle) fits all batting and keeping gear, with ease. Plus clothes for and after and accesories.
Wear inners, with any pair of gloves, this reduces the damage to your expensive gloves.....