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Re: finding a new cricket club!
« Reply #45 on: March 11, 2011, 08:09:16 AM »

if he has got bat in his hand just go really close to him so he cant swing it at u and take it off him lol

on a seriouse note that is no reason to leave the club..

there have been a fair few falls outs at all club and heated moments. sometimes close to blows. but it all gets forgoton about after a while.

but defo speak to your skipper
We've been in a similar situation, not entirely the same, all this is different when that certain player has the backing of the chairman and president, and 10 or so players have had their club ruined by the original k-(No Swearing Please)!

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Re: finding a new cricket club!
« Reply #46 on: March 13, 2011, 04:43:21 PM »

Stay and fight him.

I agree with the part of this that says "stay and fight your corner", I assume Talisman is not condoning violence. My advise would be to point out his hypocrisy, I am making a bold assumption admittedly, but I would guess he isn't aware his own behaviour is similar to that which he castigates.

I suspect this is similar to those individuals who enjoy sledging others and then can't take their own medicine.
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Re: finding a new cricket club!
« Reply #47 on: March 13, 2011, 06:25:33 PM »

Talk to the skipper and explain your issues, but don't get in to name calling. Just state exactly what happened. The likelihood is that this isn't the first time it has happened and I suspect he sees you as a threat to his ego so is "doing you over ". If the skipper is reasonable, he'll keep an eye at the nets sessions and take it offline with the guy without referring directly to you.

However you look at it, it is a form of bullying to try and prove he is top dog. You shouldn't ever let a bully win.
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Re: finding a new cricket club!
« Reply #48 on: March 13, 2011, 06:32:30 PM »

nut him (only kidding_

Hate this crap and your supposed team mate as well.

Agree in truth with Tim he has some perosnal malfunction and needs bringing back on line.

If your skipper does not back you you have 2 options i think
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Re: finding a new cricket club!
« Reply #49 on: March 15, 2011, 09:51:13 PM »

hey guys!
thought i would let you all know what the final out come was of the issue,
on monday evening i had nets the **** i had all the problems with came upto me and said he was extremely sorry for the abusive language and threats.
i only feel this happened cause i went to a chairman of the club and the skipper so i feel they must have had a word with guy, they also said i was a stongly valued memeber of the team! which was nice :)
thanks for all your advice guys it deffinetely helped :)
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Re: finding a new cricket club!
« Reply #50 on: March 15, 2011, 09:52:22 PM »

Good news, hope you have a good season.
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« Reply #51 on: March 21, 2011, 09:45:33 AM »

Good outcome mate. Best of luck!
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