So two wrongs make a right? The game is called cricket not UFC...
send offs when a player is out are right out of order. kicking it off when shaking hands is also out of order. Yes England are not choir boys but you cannot expect Stokes and Butler to stand by like some public schoolboys when provoked
No one is saying England are whiter than white but provoking players like that is going to get a response. As captain and vice captain I expect them to stand up for themselves and the players.
Is it un-edifying? yes you are correct.
I watched Ponting all thru his career and didn't like the way he treated umpires. Had an England captain behaved the way he did towards the officials I would expect them to have the book thrown at them-and rightly so.