I stopped playing regularly aged 21 due to work. I also moved town at the time and didn’t really like my new club. So I assumed it was an area thing and I wouldn’t get on with another club so might as well work weekends instead.
Big mistake.
I filled in once a year for a mates team in London and I enjoyed playing with them.
But weekend time was short for me so I couldn’t commit. Id buy test match tickets and that’s a tradition I have with my dad since a boy.
I played football for a works team instead. So 18 years later with weekends finally available I joined a club to give it a go. Best thing I ever did!
The fitness improvement, the camaraderie, the tours, even this forum! Aaaaaand! Was very very close to nearly having a cricket match with the guys on this forum has been the best hilight too.
Plenty of beers with great people.
The family feel of a local club is unique. From playing with 13yo to 66yo and everything inbetween. I’ve played with and against women of all ages too which I thoroughly enjoy and encourage. I did my ECB level 1 in the 90s so I occasionally help out with youngsters.
And I enjoy helping and learning how to prepare the pitch.
I’ve only played regularly for 3 years but I just ended up jumping into every element of cricket again. I think it’s because I care so much for the people involved. Whether it be my club and families or even this forum now. There’s so much goodwill volunteering in cricket. And I do believe the ECB seem to completely ignore it, rather like our politicians do whilst trying to run a country! (Naughty moan I know and will never mention politics again 🛑)
Yes the body aches and hurts next day. Yes despite playing and running around so much you still always feel out of breath fetching the ball or running 3!
And yes, the hangovers are terrible 😩.
But I love it. I never have big expectations on my performances like I did when younger. But the more I play the luckier I seem to get 😜
I regret not seeking the club I play for today. I regret not playing in my peak fit 20s & 30s.
I regret not continuing the primary school and youth club coaching sessions I did voluntarily.
But cricket found me again. And there is always someone else who inspires you so much. Whether it’s because they are 25 years older than me or they have a physical disability or weekly time is so short and jet lagging.
I joined my club to just have nets originally but was instantly thrown into matches.
Id beg anyone to not ever quite cricket. Cut it down, move club, just do nets, just do tours, try coaching, try pitch preparing,
Contribute on a forum and play the yearly fixture, watch your mates and put money behind the club bar.
Anything! Just don’t stop being a cog in the cricket world. Pleeeease. You are NEEDED & WANTED.