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Every club net I've ever been too just turns into a 'first team net' 'second team net' 'youth net' (mainly because first teamers don't like to be associated with anyone of 'lesser' ability).. THen it's the same 2 or 3 'stars' (or perceived stars) who bat first and usually for the longest.. Everyone else just bowls, then gets their 5 to 10 mins when bowls are bored or people are too busy trying to knock the batsmens head off because suddenly they can bounce people!
Of course, I would also say I've only been to 5 different clubs nets and none are what I'd call 'highly organised' clubs.
zero technical training, zero bowler training etc.. It's basically for the 'good' ones to slag off anyone else, the crap ones to get blasted in the head by the 'quicks' and then for people to have a slog.
It's the main reason why tbh, until I'm convinced by a clubs net I just don't value them other than a social gathering. If I go I usually just rock up and bowl. Even then I just bowl pies to the 'stars' and then bowl properly to the others to give them better training (always just bowl line and length too, nothing (intentionally) short.