I think sledging is part of the game...been going on for longgg time, it's all good as long you don't cross the line and make personal comments.
I have an issue this weekend, we have a return fixture against a side who stole money from our scorebook - we know which player he was sen doing it. As captain I know I need to set an example bit I'm not sure I will be able to stop myself from giving him both barrels every ball he is out there. Downside is that their ump is a known cheat and I can see us being umpired out of the game if I do
What's personal to one maybe innocent to another. Just look at how comments on this very forum are deemed differently. There in lays the issue, unless you literally are arrogant enough to not care about anyone but yourself of course.