I'm not going to deny that i am angry. Who in the right mind wouldn't be angry? Therefore this should be taken into account when you start judging me.
With age and experience, you will learn that 'anger' is something very much overrated. No one is judging you, merely advising that your current aggro approach may not lead to the best result.
Who in there right mind wouldn't be angry? Me, and I dare say most folks here. Get your refund/replacement from the retail outlet and then seek to discuss the matter with GM. I can almost guarantee that you will get no refund from GM directly though, they just will not be set up to do such things, hence dealers and retails outlets.
At the end of the day it is a pair of pads, not worth getting angry for.